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Navigating the Process of Putting Your Child Up for Adoption

Putting child up for adoption can be one of the hardest, yet selfless decisions a person can make in their life.  For the process to be as painless as possible it is important to know what the proper resources are and that you are sure that you are making the decision for the right reasons.  Use the guidance below to help you to find the right services so that you can be confident that you are making a wise decision.

The first step is taking the time to consider all of your options and whether or not you are sure that you are ready to make the decision to adopt your child out to another family.  It is best to seek counseling if possible so that you know that you are not making an emotional decision, but a logical one that you will be comfortable with in the years to come.  Your decision does not only affect you but also affects the people that are looking for a child to add to their family and turning back at the last moment will surely be devastating for them.

One you have decided that this is the right choice for you then you have a number of options available to you.  You can choose to seek out a couple on your own, doing your own interviews and filling out the necessary legal paperwork.  This can be time-consuming, but it can help you to feel that you are in control.

Most people, however, choose to use an agency to help them through the process.  There is a lot involved, especially when it comes to ensuring that you are getting the type of adoption that you would like.  For example, if you would like to receive updates about your child’s development through the years, then you will want to have that in writing formally.  If, however, you do not want any contact with the adoptive parents or your child at any point in the future you will need that in writing as well.

An adoption agency can also do the work of screening all of the potential adoptive parents.  You can set certain requirements, such as income, years married, ethnicity and more.  If you do not want to have contact you can choose that, or you can request that the agency assists you in face to face interviews.  The best part of having an agency at your side is that they have the necessary knowledge and experience to ensure that the process is conducted in the way that you are most comfortable with.  They also know how difficult the decision is and will work you through each step.

Giving a child up for adoption can be the most challenging decision that a person can make, but given the right information and assistance, it can go quite smoothly.  The key is to decide how you would like things to go and choose an agency that will help you to achieve just that.